Honestly, I find joy in completely rearranging things. I lived in the same room for the same way for approximately 10 years, not even switching my pillow to the other side of my bed even though I had no headboard. Something one day just clicked that, hey, maybe I could change this.
Ended up building my own desk, buying paintings from one of my parents' friends, getting rid of some of my old stuff from when I was younger, and moving EVERYTHING around until it just seemed better to me.
I may have done this four or five times since that first, and I find it enjoyable every time. Currently having my desk look out over my window where I have two pretty big spider friends that live in between the screen and the glass, it's real fun to watch them catch and eat their food there. (I'm sure they like having me there too, the moths they catch can get pretty big.)
Also stupid romantic shit like cuddling and just going out together makes me happy. I've always only kept a few friends close to me, but I've only ever stopped talking to one of my past boyfriends.
My friends are also in a band together, and they've been more successful as of late. That makes me overjoyed.
As a final thought, when friends I don't get to talk to much anymore message me. I'm really glad I joined Smogon, because everyone knows where to find me even though they were on different Pokemon sites. It's interesting to think about how I spent a lot of my high school career talking to some guys online about Pokemon in my down time, I don't think I ever expected to meet actual friends that I would keep in touch with for so many years.