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Opponent hasn't responded since Wednesday, as far as the profile says has been offline since then as well, and is on the other side of the world, so scheduling was already an issue, what should I do?
I'm trying to join the discord and ask questions in the chat there, but I need to be verified on the server itself, what do I need to do or who do I need to talk to?